They know that they should not wait for a ‘prince in shining armor’ but go hunting themselves. They know what they want and they also feel great about themselves. They know their worth and know their own beauty, they will not adjust to a man anymore.
They have also learned from their previous relationships how to find the right balance.
No more passive aggressiveness, or an indirect approach where the man has to guess at her feelings and then be surprised when she suddenly explodes.
If something isn’t right, they tell you right away. Afterwards everything is immediately cake and egg.
Women over 40 have often taken matters into their own hands to end a relationship. Once they’ve done that, they don’t want to get stuck in another bad relationship again. And they don’t want a man to be unhappy either.
She will give herself and her partner enough space to be themselves.
It is very liberating for her and she can just be herself. They immediately tell you what they expect and create the space to be open and honest. This means that an interesting connection can usually be made on different levels.
This can be intellectual, friendship or naughtiness… There is always something.”
Very exciting and beautifully written